I had two mated birds for some 9 years. Charlie, who was there for me through my mother's road through Alzheimer's and her death, died 7 months later. Broke my heart 😢 That was my biggest crying time.Can anybody please tell me what to do when a Cockatiel's companion passes away?
Do you just get another one or what?
My Bird is very lonely now.
I just do not know what do do.
Please help me.
Any advice will be appreciated.
It seems that they don't live long enough, no matter how long that might be. But I wouldn't want them to grieve the loss of me so hard like I do of them. Definitely a sad, sad part of this life. But I try to enjoy the relationship with my loving birds as best I can without dwelling too much on worries of future loss. But the loss is unbearable.I had two mated birds for some 9 years. Charlie, who was there for me through my mother's road through Alzheimer's and her death, died 7 months later. Broke my heart 😢 That was my biggest crying time.
Mollie, his mate, didn't get it the first day. Put his lifeless body into her cage on and off for 2 days so that she understood that her mate had died. Believe they need to see the lifeless body to be shown to understand is gone. She screamed continually, big time the next morning, but finally got that he was gone. My fave Charlie tiel whom I had cremated, so still here in ashes to honor his life and passing.
It had a bigger impact on me when he passed, more than my 96 yr old mother. As she declined, he just knew that the only place he should be was quietly sitting on her knee while she hummed to him. Just knew that could no longer hang around her head etc. They are smart little tackers who take a huge chunk out of your life when they pass away, including their feathered mates 💓
I had two mated birds for some 9 years. Charlie, who was there for me through my mother's road through Alzheimer's and her death, died 7 months later. Broke my heart 😢 That was my biggest crying time.
Mollie, his mate, didn't get it the first day. Put his lifeless body into her cage on and off for 2 days so that she understood that her mate had died. Believe they need to see the lifeless body to be shown to understand is gone. She screamed continually, big time the next morning, but finally got that he was gone. My fave Charlie tiel whom I had cremated, so still here in ashes to honor his life and passing.
It had a bigger impact on me when he passed, more than my 96 yr old mother. As she declined, he just knew that the only place he should be was quietly sitting on her knee while she hummed to him. Just knew that could no longer hang around her head etc. They are smart little tackers who take a huge chunk out of your life when they pass away, including their feathered mates 💓
Thank you for replying.I'm seeing this late but still wanted to reply. The immediate concern for your surviving bird would be that it not get sick - if your bird possibly died from illness you want to be careful and watch for any signs of sickness in the survivor and get medical care right away. Also, give him/her lots of extra attention as comfort in the loss of their companion. I'm very sorry for your loss. It's sad to lose a pet - they are family members too.
I feel very sorry for you kind sir.😥I had two mated birds for some 9 years. Charlie, who was there for me through my mother's road through Alzheimer's and her death, died 7 months later. Broke my heart 😢 That was my biggest crying time.
Mollie, his mate, didn't get it the first day. Put his lifeless body into her cage on and off for 2 days so that she understood that her mate had died. Believe they need to see the lifeless body to be shown to understand is gone. She screamed continually, big time the next morning, but finally got that he was gone. My fave Charlie tiel whom I had cremated, so still here in ashes to honor his life and passing.
It had a bigger impact on me when he passed, more than my 96 yr old mother. As she declined, he just knew that the only place he should be was quietly sitting on her knee while she hummed to him. Just knew that could no longer hang around her head etc. They are smart little tackers who take a huge chunk out of your life when they pass away, including their feathered mates 💓
30 year expectation if healthy. I've known someone on an Aussie tiel site who had a 34 year old boy who paid $3,000 to have lost, fright feathers re-inserted. I wouldn't have done that as their feather do grow back in soon enough.It seems that they don't live long enough, no matter how long that might be. But I wouldn't want them to grieve the loss of me so hard like I do of them. Definitely a sad, sad part of this life. But I try to enjoy the relationship with my loving birds as best I can without dwelling too much on worries of future loss. But the loss is unbearable.Perhaps the price of love.