You can't force the situation. Let her chose when she wants to interact, just leave the cage open. Using your phone watch bird videos, she will instantly fly to you and just don't touch her unless she bows her head down for scratches, They hate the fingers until they say to use them. She will love you and the phone as long as you show bird videos or put the camera on flip so she can see herself. My bird hates my little boy unless he has the phone and that;s how he lures him into spending time with him.